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The Cost of Overdelivering: How to Reclaim Your Time and Talent.

 By Dr. Dori B. Cook | NACR3: Strength. Resilience. Sparkle.

You do the most.

Not because you’re trying to impress.
Not because you’re trying to outshine anyone.
But because you’ve been conditioned to prove your worth through your output.

And let’s be real: overdelivering got you here.

But it won’t get you there—to freedom, sustainability, joy, or equity.

In the world of Black women entrepreneurs, overdelivering is often disguised as excellence. But what it really creates is exhaustion, entitlement from others, and erosion of your boundaries.

Let’s talk about it.

What Overdelivering Actually Costs You

Yes, it earns praise. It may even temporarily increase revenue or referrals. But over time, the costs begin to stack:

Real CostHidden Impact
Undercharging         Devalues your skill, normalizes burnout pricing
People-Pleasing         Trains clients to expect beyond your scope
Self-Neglect         You ignore your own emotional and physical needs
Business Confusion         You blur your offer and dilute your brilliance

  • You start resenting your work.
  • You delay launching because everything must be “perfect.”
  • You feel invisible in the very business you created.

🔄 Strategy: Reclaiming Your Time & Talent in 3 Moves

1. Audit Your Boundaries

  • What tasks or deliverables are you giving away that aren’t in the contract?

  • Where do you say yes when you really mean “this should be paid”?

Quick Fix: Review your onboarding materials and clearly define scope, timelines, and revision limits.

2. Align Your Pricing With Your Energy Output

  • Does this offer drain or nourish you?

  • Are you charging for access as well as outcomes?

Quick Fix: Introduce tiered offers. Protect your most generous energy for your highest-value services.

3. Practice Strategic Restraint

You don’t have to give everything in one session, one launch, or one reel.
Let people come back for more.

Quick Fix: Save content for a series. Spread your value over time to increase retention and longevity.

✨ NACR3 Reminder:

Overdelivering is not your ministry. Sustained impact is.

💭 Reflection Prompt:

Where in my business am I giving beyond what I agreed to—and what would it mean to honor my boundaries instead? Here's a resource for you to consider while honoring your boundaries. 

🌟 Affirmation:

My worth is not measured by exhaustion. I lead with clarity, not compensation. I release the need to prove and choose to protect.

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