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The Cost of Overdelivering: How to Reclaim Your Time and Talent.

  By Dr. Dori B. Cook | NACR3: Strength. Resilience. Sparkle. You do the most. Not because you’re trying to impress. Not because you’re trying to outshine anyone. But because you’ve been conditioned to prove your worth through your output. And let’s be real: overdelivering got you here. But it won’t get you there —to freedom, sustainability, joy, or equity. In the world of Black women entrepreneurs, overdelivering is often disguised as excellence . But what it really creates is exhaustion, entitlement from others, and erosion of your boundaries. Let’s talk about it. What Overdelivering Actually Costs You Yes, it earns praise. It may even temporarily increase revenue or referrals. But over time, the costs begin to stack: Real Cost Hidden Impact Undercharging          Devalues your skill, normalizes burnout pricing People-Pleasing          Trains clients to expect beyond your scope Self-Neglect         ...

What to Do When You’re Called to Lead but Tired of Building Alone.

By Dr. Dori B. Cook | NACR3: Strength. Resilience. Sparkle. There is a particular ache that comes with being a visionary—a weight that builds when you’re the strategist, creator, motivator, accountant, and social media manager, often being the only one who truly sees the full vision. Especially as a Black woman entrepreneur, you are not just building a business; you are carrying a legacy, rewriting narratives, and creating safe spaces where none existed before. The truth is,  it gets heavy. There are days you may wonder, “ Why does it feel like I’m the only one who sees this?”  Or worse: “ Am I wrong for wanting more support?” Let me offer this truth: You are not wrong . You are not weak .  You are tired , and that’s honest.  But you are also still chosen , and that is sacred. The Lonely Burden of Vision Being called to lead means you are wired to think differently and see solutions others haven’t imagined. However, being the “first” or the “only” often me...